"Pretty Woman. Memoirs of a Geisha. Firefly. The Girlfriend Experience. Secret Diary of a Call Girl. Moulin Rouge. I began to see a trend: The media says that if you are a person in the sex industry, even one who consensually entered sex work, you will always have to make a choice between love and work. Sex workers, you see, cannot afford to love. Cue dramatic music and wistful looks into the long distance."
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this interesting discussion of loving and sex-working.
A very interesting piece. There are so many prejudices that the partner has to get past in order to be truly supportive of a sex worker in her work. Especially where the work involves physical contact. This may be an arbitrary dividing line, but I have no doubt that I would find that to be a line that made the work much more difficult to accept, even though I know it would be hypocritical of me.
ReplyDeleteAnyway, I'm glad you are keeping the blog alive. Hope to read something soon about what has been happening w/ you.